Sunday, July 3, 2011

Erotic Truth, Day 3~Cum 2 Mama...NOW

3. Your thoughts on S&M..

Noun 1. sadomasochism - sadism and masochism combined in one person

sadism - sexual pleasure obtained by inflicting harm (physical or psychological) on others

masochism - sexual pleasure obtained from receiving punishment (physical or psychological)

I do like S & M, but with limitations.

I can honestly say I'm more of a sadist than a masochist.

Although I have never done a full role play of dominatrix/submissive, I have acted out some parts of S & M.

I do like to tie people up, but I like doing scarves and ropes, more so than actual handcuffs. I like to scratch and bite on parts of the body. I like to pull on nipples. I like pulling hair and barking orders. I love to spank...with a paddle, wet towel, and with my hands.

I'm not much of a masochist, however. But I do like my nipples nibbled on and tugged. My hair pulled. With tying, there has to be extreme trust, as well as with spanking. Reason I say that is one point in my life when I was sexually open, this person did things to me that violated that this side is not a side I freely show to someone.

Although I do admit to being a control freak, it's not nearly as extreme as I purport it to people. If with the right person, I am willing to relinquish a little bit and allow myself to be comfortable in the other role.

Limitations: not into burning, cutting, hitting with chains, nipple clamps or stuff that will have someone look like they were in a domestic dispute or ICU.

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