23. Dom/Sub… sexy or just an excuse for men or women to abuse?
I think it is definitely sexy, particularly if one of the roles is out of one’s element.
Take me, for example. I do admit I like having the control and being in it. Every once in a while, if I’m in the mood or part of role play, I will do the part of the submissive.
The sexiness, however, is not just in the roles themselves but total communication and respect for boundaries.
If there is no trust and communication, it’s not longer sexy; it’s suspect.
That's all I got...deuces.